Take the time. My sister-in-law recently crossed over to the other side of the veil and I traveled home for her memorial service. I noticed during this trip, as I have when other family members have died, that when someone I care about crosses over to the other side, I can’t help but slow down my life and reflect about what is really, really important to me. Sometimes it is the unchecked habits in our lives that make us sick or contribute to chronic illness.