Posts Tagged ‘self healing’

Intuition—A Pathway to Wellness

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

Intuition is one of those elusive concepts that many of us know we should be using to enhance our opportunities for healing, but often, don’t quite know how to access. I remember a friend that had been a meditator for many years asking me how he would know when his intuition was speaking to him.

I was taken aback. I had assumed that because he had been an active meditator at one time in his life, that he would automatically be open to and recognize his intuitive wisdom, but that was not the case.

Because he did not have a relationship with his own intuitive insight, he spent countless hours researching about various allopathic and alternative approaches to the treatment of his medical condition, and made logical deductions about which of those treatments gave him the best chance of success—all without the benefit of his intuition.

I can’t personally imagine a more challenging approach. Had I been him, I would have been constantly wondering if I had made the right choice. When I base my decisions on good research and intuitive guidance, I don’t worry about whether or not my choice is right because: 1) I trust my intuition to put me on the right and best path for me and 2) I trust my research will show me how to get the most out of the path I have chosen.

Intuition can be profoundly subtle, and that is one of the reasons we miss its messages. Many of us have not been taught to recognize our intuition when it is speaking to us, so we can feel as though we are intuitionally challenged, and as a result, lean more heavily on our deductive reasoning.

Even if we do recognize it, if the message doesn’t seem logical, we may disregard it. Have you ever had one of those moments where you were arguing with yourself and finally chose the more logical course of action, only to discover later,that the part of yourself you were arguing with actually had a clearer picture about what was going on and what you needed to realize or do?

Whoever coined the words, “the little voice in the back of your head” did a great job of describing the subtle nature of intuition. It can be so faint that intuition can be very easy to dismiss. To get the intuitive message, you really have to become aware of the subtle responses your mind and body make in regard to questions, dilemmas and concerns about your health.

I’ve learned to really pay attention when I have a thought that comes up in response to a decision I need to make, particularly if it is counter to what I normally would choose. I really pay attention if that thought is persistent. And I pay extra special attention when my predominant thought or the little voice in the back of my head is having a visceral effect on my body. Those are signs of intuition trying to break through my habitual thoughts, assumptions, and sometimes, through my logical deductions.

Hunches, gut feelings, tingling, or a tightening belly, for example, are more tell-tale signs of intuition at work. By becoming a more astute observer of your subtle thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations, you start recognizing intuitive insights.

Your awareness of intuitive messages gets stronger as you pay attention to how your intuition speaks through you. Act on your intuition, and you’ll notice the insights even more frequently because you will have developed faith in your inner wisdom.

Discovering Your Inutition for Self-Healing

Monday, June 14th, 2010

Someone recently asked me, “As an intuitive, how do you make decisions about what medical or healing care to receive? When I’m not feeling well or I’ve had an injury, I just go to the doctor. How do you figure out what to do?”

No one had ever asked me that question. I really had to think about it. I made an agreement with Spirit many years ago that I would continue to strengthen my sound healing gift for the service of others. In return I expected that when I needed healing or medical help it would be obvious to me and the right help would be there at the right time.

That has held true. I either know I need to do my own healing work, or I know in an instant who I need to call or see for help. If the person I call doesn’t think they can help, they usually have the perfect referral.

Shortly after making the agreement, I remember tripping over a concrete block and falling on my hands and knees in a parking lot. Several of the women with me were Reiki masters and within seconds there were healing hands on me. Months later, I cut my finger deeply (deep enough to require stitches) as I was cutting vegetables, and the only healer in the house was me. So I sang the cut closed. Some years later when I had digestive problems, I knew I needed to see a friend of mine that is a Naturopathic MD. Within days, my problem was cured.

As long as I listen to my intuition and trust it, I’m fine. I’ve learned to pay close attention to my dreams because they often provide me with insights about what is going on in my body and/or what I need to do about it. I meditate and open my heart and mind to intuitive wisdom that guides me, and I do my best to avoid making any assumptions about what is going on and what I need to do until I have received clear guidance, and if needed medical assessment.

After listening to me go on for a while as I attempted to answer her questions, she finally piped up and said, “Oh, you do it like the rest of us, on a case-by-case basis.” Well, there you have it I thought.

Isn’t that what most of us do. If you bump your head, you have to decide whether it is serious enough to see your doctor or visit an emergency room, whether you want to give it some healing energy of your own, or whether you just want to put some ice on it to help take the swelling down. You assess the situation to the best of your ability in the moment and make the decision that seems best to you. Now that I use my intuition consciously, I simply add those insights into my assessment.

Where many of us get tripped up in the beginning is in learning to recognize and trust our intuition. It is there for all of us, but few of us have been taught how to access it for our own well-being. It is not difficult to do, but it does take awareness and practice.

To become aware of your intuition, I recommend that you reflect upon a time in your life when your intuition guided you to make a choice that was absolutely right for you. How did the insight come to you? How did you know it was true? What was it like to act on that hunch and witness the outcome?

How did you respond to that incident later? Did you think it was an accident? Did anyone tell you it was just a coincidence? Did you trust your intuition again or did you shut it down?

Watch for New Dream Foundation’s upcoming class on Intuitive Wisdom starting the end of August at http://www.NewDreamFoundation.com

Ask yourself, “How could I stimulate my intuition awake now?” Allow the question itself to become a quest for greater clarity in your healing journey.

Eliminating the Internal Complaint Department

Friday, April 30th, 2010

A while back my husband and I were in a class where we were asked to spend a day keeping a tally of how often we complained. I thought I was a pretty positive person so this exercise would be pretty easy to do. Oh my gosh, was I surprised to discover how often I was thinking complaining thoughts, though I wasn’t expressing them. I was complaining all right, just not out loud.

We were also asked to notice our patterns of thoughts. Did we tend to complain about other friends, co-workers, politics, our bodies, our helplessness, injustice, past abuses, lovers, etc.? As the class talked about our various thought patterns, it was amazing to realize that we tended to complain about certain types of events or people in our lives with great consistency.

Once I knew my particular pattern, which was complaining about people that didn’t live up to my expectations, I was able to zero in on my internal complaint department and reduce the number of harmful thoughts I was having.

I consciously attended to the nature of my thoughts. The minute I had a negative or blaming thought, I paused long enough to notice the emotion attached to the thought, and then held that emotion in compassion.

In the end, it didn’t matter whether the emotion was connected to me, another person, a group, a political or spiritual view a situation or a concept, simply holding the emotion in compassion diffused it. Once there was no longer any emotional charge, I could then hold the person, situation or concept in love.

Within days, I noticed a dramatic change in my thought habits. I also noticed a dramatic change in my interactions. Rather than responding to people from assumptions I had drawn, I was more inclined to ask questions that would help me gain greater clarity about them and their situations. Of course, there were times when I was still disappointed, but approaching people with compassion, created space for me to help people work through the challenges they were having that were ultimately leading to my disappointment.

Instead of being cranky, I found myself laughing with them about their foibles, working toward creative solutions, adjusting unreasonable expectations, and using the challenges as opportunities for me to respond in more conscious ways.

As a healer, I know that the more energy we put into negative or limiting thoughts about others or ourselves, the more likely we are to create a limiting and negative reality. The converse, of course, is also true. The more energy we put into loving, caring thoughts, the more we attract that reality into our lives.

If I’m blaming someone or something outside of myself for my illness or if I’m angry with myself for my current state of health, I’m distracting myself from the opportunity to access my personal healing energy. I become so engaged and absorbed in the negative energy and the assumptions that usually come with it that I’m denying myself the kind of pure, compassionate feelings that lead to healing discoveries, assistance and desired outcomes. I know because I’ve done it. I’ve been so angry that I have exacerbated injuries and illness. I have also found enough compassion to love myself into wellness.

The exercise was a great reminder that it is wise to periodically check in on your internal complaint department. If it is still in operation, it might be time to change the energy. Perhaps a well-founded complaint is at times appropriate. Perhaps eliminating the complaint department isn’t necessary, but keeping it down to a level where it isn’t frequent or running our thoughts, can only lead to greater peace and opportunities for solutions to the challenges we face.

Use Your Emotions to Help You Heal

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

waterfall1Emotions tell stories about what is really going on. You’ve just got to be willing to sit with the uncomfortable ones long enough and with enough self-honesty to discover  what they are telling you about what you need for your healing.

This is going to make a lot more sense if I share a couple of poignant stories from my life.

Years ago, I was in loving relationship where my sexual energy started to fully awaken and blossom. Naturally, I was grateful to be in a relationship where I could enjoy my sexual expression, and yet at the same time I was emotionally very raw—so raw that I was frequently on fire with anger. I dealt with that anger by either being sarcastic or withdrawing. To compound matters, I would get raging migraine headaches after making love during day-time hours.

Finally, as the relationship was ending, I started going to therapy and uncovered that I had been sexually abused as a child. In order for that realization to become apparent, I had to learn how to be with my anger without judging it. I needed to let go of my need to blame others for the fact that I felt angry, and instead understand where that anger was coming from—the old wounds that had set my angry responses into motion.

As I reflected on my realization, I came to understand that my recent sexual opening was triggering the abuse I had suppressed. My emotions and my headaches were both telling me something was very wrong, but it wasn’t about what I thought he should or shouldn’t have been doing, it was about the hidden emotional pain of my childhood experience.

When you sit with those uncomfortable feelings long enough, they can help you uncover difficult, but important truths.

Years later, with a new lover, we discovered more about why I would get terribly crabby. One day, while I was in the kitchen contemplating why I felt so angry inside when nothing bad had happened, he lovingly explained to me that I tended to get really rude and judgmental with him just after making love in the afternoon.

My eyes flew wide open. It was so obvious. Yes, that is the time of day I remembered being sexually abused. Then I remembered how awful it was to be abused and then go about the day as though nothing had happened.

Clearly, I had more healing work to do. Fortunately, my lover was kind enough to talk this through with me and we together we created a transition between making love during the day and attending to household activities. With his help, I healed.

Today, I don’t get angry and don’t have  headaches when I choose to make love during day-time hours. To get to that place, I needed to honor the anger and pain I was feeling. They were the outward expression of a deep and important story. Until I sat with the discomfort of my anger, it ran my life.

Running from emotions rarely helps us in the healing journey. They need to be honored, and I don’t mean by harming and hurting other people. I mean we heal by sitting down and have a “cup of tea” with our feelings so that we can understand the hidden stories behind our emotions and heal the root cause of our pain.

Reverend Misa is the author of “The Root of All Healing: 7 Steps to Healing Anything.”

Receiving Healing Prayers Part II

Wednesday, February 10th, 2010

candlesWhen other people’s prayers can actually limit your healing.

As we discussed in the previous article, it is important to actually open your heart to receive healing prayers from others. As you heart opens, so does your energetic body, allowing the energy, or love and intention, behind the prayer to penetrate into your being.

However, when opening your energy body, you want to be sure that the energy you are receiving is in alignment with your own intentions in order for the prayers and love to have their best effect.

What you don’t want is for them to be in conflict. For example, if someone is praying for you to be spiritually saved through your healing process, and that is not in alignment with your intentions, you may find the belief that accompanies their good wishes, causes you more harm than good as your psychic self struggles with the concept of what it means to be saved.

I’ve actually witnessed this in a healing session. Family members had said prayers for a woman’s healing that were in conflict with her spiritual perspectives. Her healing process was being slowed down because her spiritual body was in conflict around her desire to receive the loving regard of her family while rejecting the religious beliefs that were attached to those prayers.

This experience taught me that it is very important when receiving healing prayers to set the intention regarding exactly what energy and beliefs you are willing to receive.

You can most easily do this by becoming clear about your desired outcome and affirming it daily. You can simultaneously affirm that you gladly receive prayers from others that are in alignment with your clear intention, and without any limiting conditions or perspectives from them.

You can always choose to receive someone’s loving regard for you without their stated intentions or beliefs if you appreciate the love, but their intentions are incongruous with yours. After all, most prayers are intended to be acts of love for ourselves and those we care about. And love alone is powerful healing energy.

Receiving the Gifts of Prayers Part I

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

cuppedhandssmThis weekend some wonderful initiated elders came to our house for a visioning retreat where they held individuals and groups across the world in their sacred feminine arms. In that space of profound love, tremendous healing can occur for those of us open to receive.

Though the ceremony is completed, the power of the ceremony continues and the healing energy is available to all of us.

As I held space for our elders, knowing that I was being graciously included in their prayers, I reminded myself that the benefit of such loving prayers are only truly received as I open myself and willing receiving the blessing.

And so I did, by giving thanks for their prayers and opening my heart to receive their love. Once my heart was filled with profound love, I invited the love to fill my entire body, including the broken and wounded places within me.

Opening to the precious gift of loving prayers requires more than saying or thinking about receiving them.

You really have to open your energetic field and one of the best ways to get that process going is to open your heart.

Here is one of the benefits to receiving prayers based in holding you in loving energy. It allows your own higher consciousness to determine what is right and best for you. The person holding the energy for you is not directing it; simply making the love available for you to use.

I invite you to take a few moments to sit quietly today and receive the love that was held for you this weekend. Allow your heart to open and your higher consciousness to know what to do, and allow yourself to receive the healing benefits their prayers.

Holidays, Family Dynamics, and Self-Healing

Monday, December 21st, 2009

poinsettaDuring this holiday season, if you spend more time with your family, you may find your buttons getting pushed. Here is the thing about healing.

Those buttons—those are the very places where you store pent up feelings and ignore unmet core needs that lead to or contribute to illnesses. This holiday could provide a significant opportunity to do some fundamental healing that will allow your mind and body to find greater healing.

Families are where our deepest unmet needs rise to the surface. Those unmet needs unconsciously drive us, and illness, believe it or not, is one way in which we get those needs met.

When you are with family, you may find those unconscious needs becoming very apparent to you. As they do, you are in a better position to identify them and bring your hidden motivators to conscious awareness, where you can meet them in more positive ways.

I remember returning home during the holidays with the hope that my mother might actually be more interested in what I was doing or that my dad would take more notice of my opinions about things. I wanted family dynamics to be different than they were, and so holidays were often a source of great disappointment.

It took a while for me to figure out that my family was just being my family. I was changing and if I was truly growing spiritually, then I needed to be willing to hold the space for them that I was seeking for myself.

In other words, if I wanted to my mother to become more interested in me, then I needed to start a new cycle of interaction by becoming more interested in her. If I wanted my father to listen to my opinions, it meant asking more questions about his views.

Over time, my family might or might not extend the same interest in me, but regardless, I would be bringing healing into our family dynamic. Surely, if I was feeling unrecognized, unheard, or misunderstood, there was a high probability the other family members were feeling the same thing, since such unmet core needs can be (and were in my case) passed down from generation to generation.

I knew that in time, my unmet, core needs would get met—through my family members or someone else. With my family I had the opportunity to recognize the universality of those needs and simply become a healing agent within our family dynamics. I became the compassionate, healing balm we all needed.

Oh sure, I argued with myself that it should be coming from my parents first, not me. After all, they were the parents. But the reality was that I had come to understand the importance of healing core needs in order to heal physically and emotionally. My parents hadn’t come to that realization yet. So who should initiate the change? The one who knows!

In choosing to consciously become that healing agent—listening, caring, asking questions, and being concerned for another—I eventually attracted that energy into my life from friends, and to my surprise, at times from my parents and siblings.

It is amazing how much pain and tension in my body was a direct reflection of those unmet needs, and how quickly illness began healing as I created the space in which those needs could become met.

Perhaps during this holiday season, your family will be the recipient of your healing balm. Perhaps you will feel the call to be the one to bring to your family what each one of them needs most—for their healing and yours.

The Root of All Healing

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009

rohbookcover1The Root Of All Healing

Right now, Reverend Misa is launching her book, “The Root of All Healing: 7 Steps to Healing Anything.” If you are health challenged, in chronic pain or know someone that would love to find relief from illness, this book lays out a clear and successful pathway to ultimate health.

Order this amazing book, The Root Of All Healing, and not only can you begin the rewarding journey back to vibrant health, but you can also take advantage of over 20 powerful gifts from other self-empowerment teachers, mentors, and guides.

True and Lasting Healing Is Within Your Reach

Monday, November 30th, 2009

rohbookcover2I woke up one morning with these words on the tip of my tongue, “The Root of All Healing.” What the heck is that, I wondered?


It happened two more days in a row. I knew it had to be something significant, but I had no clue what that might be.


Hoping to get some insight I called a couple of my colleagues, asking if they had any ideas for a tele-seminar we might do using this title. Well, they were busy or they thought the title was great but not theirs to address.


I knew I needed to do with this little gift, so I sat down to my computer and typed the title. I sat back and said to myself, “Don’t think, just type and let it come.” The next thing I knew I was typing the following, “7 Steps to Healing Anything.”


I reeled back and said out loud, “I know 7 steps to healing anything?”

It sounded so presumptuous and yet I couldn’t deny that something beyond my day-to-day thinking wanted to come through. I reminded myself that if I was willing to allow the Divine to flow through me, healing wisdom would find its way into words.


And the words came in the form of many years worth of observation—attending to what I had learned about how people heal. Coming from a background in special education, organizational development and acting, I had unconsciously been observing the motivators that caused people to remain ill or to  heal.


I had become a student of miracles, without even realizing it, until I began putting my observations down on paper.


My great discovery was that miracles are created by what is inside of us. I had come to realize that many of us remain ill because a need is getting met through that illness, that we aren’t even aware exists. Simply put, we are unconsciously motivated to be sick.


There is a way out, and the 7 steps that finally made their way into a book, show you how to unlock the miracles inside of you.


On Tuesday, December 1, my book is having its birthday party. I’m formally announcing that it is available for you and those you love.


Read it and discover your birth-right, the inner power that sustains you in being fully and completely well.


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In Order to Accelerate Your Healing, You Have to Slow Down

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

treeI know “to accelerate your healing, you have to slow down,” sounds like an oxymoron, but it is true. When we are busy, running around, uptight, and stressed, we actually slow down our healing process. The body simply must be in a relaxed state for deep and lasting healing to occur.

Black Elk, a powerful Sioux medicine man, is known to have given a mattress to someone seeking his help in healing, then tell them to begin by spending several days resting and sleeping under a tree. He understood the importance of re-establishing natural rhythms before beginning healing work.

Natural rhythms are slower than our usual, hurried pace, and are more conducive to natural healing methodologies.