You express the opportunity so beautifully! Isn't it true that what we need for healing is to move through rather than away from that which has been the source of our pain? I have found this to be true in both emotional and physical healing.

yes, it is easier to see the projections the minute we stop blaming and finding fault with others.Then the emotional healing occurs so much faster, and the physical healing follows immediately.

You express the opportunity so beautifully! Isn’t it true that what we need for healing is to move through rather than away from that which has been the source of our pain? I have found this to be true in both emotional and physical healing.

yes, it is easier to see the projections the minute we stop blaming and finding fault with others.Then the emotional healing occurs so much faster, and the physical healing follows immediately.

Well said. Thank you for sharing.

I found your article "Holidays, Family Dynamics and Self-Healing" fascinating! I've been in the "self-help" world for as long as I can remember and over the last few months I've reached the same conclusion – your greatest healing opportunities are found within your family. The so-called "destructured" environment is actually ripe with immense opportunities to grow and heal our innermost wounds. Through EFT I've learnt that if it hurts and you don't want to talk or think about it, then that's EXACTLY where you must start! As you so rightly say, your family pushes buttons you'd rather be left alone.

When you stop blaming the other one and start asking yourself what it is that bothers you about their behaviour and are willing to admit that most times you're actually projecting onto them your unresolved issues, you are ready to start moving forward.

Thank you very much for such an insightful article.

Warmest wishes for the Festive Season,
Lídia Vaz (Portugal)